Did you know that the average amount spent on a wedding in the United States stands at $28,000??? Can you even believe that? I can't. Why would anyone spend that kind of money to get married - on one single day in their life? I mean, let me tell you. I get it. You want a pretty wedding. Nice flowers, nice dress, fun reception, etc., etc. But, come on. Who the heck spends $28,000 on ANYTHING in one day unless you are a millionaire?? I just don't get it. I would rather use the money for a down payment on a house or invest it for my future or anything.
Granted, I got married in 1977 and was pretty much as poor as a pauper, but I spent about $500 on my wedding and had a beautiful dress (I wore my Mom's which was 25 years old, fit me like a glove, and was beautiful to boot), had beautiful flowers (which we paid $75 to buy wholesale and had a florist friend help us make the bouquets, boutonnieres, etc.), had my future mother-in-law sew three bridesmaids dresses and she was even able to eek out the flower girl dress (from the material I picked out to have the colors I wanted and paid for it myself), and the ladies in our church supplied the kitchen help for the dinner (which me and my parents paid for). Okay, I know not everyone can do that kind of stuff, but with a little bit of planning and some ingenuity, you can have a great wedding and not break the bank. We had a wonderful and fun wedding and still have great memories of that day. If I had spent that kind of money on my wedding, even back then, I would have been sick trying to figure out why and how long it was going to take us to pay for it all.
I know it's not for everyone (having a homespun, do-it-yourself type of wedding), but hey, something must have worked - we're still married! Thirty-six years later (July 9, 2013) we will be celebrating together and also will be thankful we aren't still paying for a single day in our wonderful life together.
Something to think about, no?
Until the next random bit of information appears,
Becky